Pondering ...

An English saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together".
In Chinese they have something similar "天下乌鸦一般黑".

Both have been used abundantly to describe all men are bad. So I just felt that there are still nice guys around in my group so I can't really accept men are all bad. Those men merely spoil the market and make the good men being dragged into the dark. "害群之马" so called.

In the English sayings, it said "Birds of a feather flock together". I agree on that. Same breeds do go around together cause same frequency mah. Like the Penguins, Seagulls, Crows, Chickens ... they are always among their own group. But can we say they are all the same? They don't. Each have their own characteristics. Same goes to men.

In the Chinese sayings, "天下乌鸦一般黑", again it said Crows are all black. Which is also correct but not all men are described as "Crows" right? Why do we have to be classified to only one kind? What bout the other Birds? The Peacocks? They are beautiful. Besides, Crows are one of the animals that practice fillial piety. They are not totally bad also you know?

So please ... gals out there, don't always think all men are equally bad ok? It's really very disappointing when the nice guys want to get close with you, but maybe you have experience before with some bad guys, you think all guys are bad. Come on lor ... if that's the case, I think if all guys really turn bad, it's because gals wanted them to be bad. Forced by circumstances you know?

One thing for the guys, Please don't encourage your nice friends to be naughty or bad using what "男人不坏，女人不爱". Yah ... true enough ... Gals like guys who are bad. No doubt. But if he does not wish to be influenced, don't force him. It's really very irritating.

The same theory goes since not all guys are bad, not all gals like bad guys.

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